I am on a self imposed self lovin moratorium. On the weekends I am usually masturbating at some point. So a three day weekend and no self lovin? Have I gone mad?
Perhaps I have. If I have not, I am bound to in the very bear future. I have been having the strangest dreams. . .some are me trying to get to a place where I am suppose to meet someone and some where I am actually with someone having sexy time. The thing about these dreams that is different from real life is that in these dreams I am the aggressor. As you might know from my blog or from my old blogs, I am much more passive/subservient than aggressive/dominant. In these dreams, I am riding my partner in a seated position facing him and kissing him deeply while I ride his cock and grind to my hearts content. Maybe it is because I am horny as heck… maybe it is a secret fantasy?
I am inclined to think it is the former. I have never really enjoyed cowgirl or girl on top and don’t really feel as much that way so I usually only do that if it is what my partner wants. I don’t mind it, I just don’t usually prefer it.
Now, as for why anyone in their right mind would put a moratorium on self love… remains unanswered. Have you ever decided you were not going to cum until you saw someone? Like if someone you know is away and you want it to be extra crazy when you see them?
If so, did it make sex that much better then porn? Or was it no different than normal?
Does the real thing live up to the build-up?
Hi everyone… I’ve been on here a while now and knew the time would come when I would change my profile to just blog and keep in touch with mobile adult friend finder.
So what does that mean… Let me make this as clear as I possibly can. Just here to BLOG
Very tired of people who don’t read profiles, tired of people who lie on their profiles about the little things, tired of the DOUCHE BAG MEN, you know who you telling you what you want to hear to get what they want. Not stupid here. And no just because I’m this site doesn’t mean I here looking for the same thing you are. Please…
Yes, I suppose I could go elsewhere to blog, and yes I suppose you could go else where “like the bar or cl” to pick up your next piece of ass. But I don’t tell you to what to do with your life, so don’t email me to tell me to get the “f**k” off the site if I am not here to f**k.
I can’t stand ignorant people.
To maintain my blog I have to select something.Duh that is why I have alternative activities “blogging”.
And does it really matter who,male, female,couples,groups I select. Everyone can read, oh wait, they can’t because if they could they would be reading profiles. And my profile would be clear as mud to everyone.
I don’t waste people time, so don’t waste mine with your bs.
And to all my blog friends, I’m still going to blog and appreciate all the comment and support from them. You guys rock.
Enjoying your summer, I know I am going too!
Find a fuckbuddy near you & fuck her in your house tonight!
Again, your getting fucked TONIGHT! Not only are you getting fucked tonight but this woman you met your first day on the site is going to go to a complete strangers house to do it. Not very likely I would think. The only redeeming quality of this ad is that it does not offer it for free like so many others.
Here is an example of one that was mentioned in my first post. It uses just about every deceptive tactic that I have seen. Check this out…
I wanna tell you a story how an adults can find the friends….
I have never been a fan of lies. I try my best to always tell the truth, even when it’s filtered through vague statements, and especially when I know it will hurt. That’s when I’m really honest.
For those of you who can not tell, I believe in love. I believe in it with all of my heart.
This means I set myself up to be hurt on a regular basis.
But I trust that with honesty, anything can be achieved. Anything. Even the ability to get over hurt.
And, I’ve been lucky to love some amazing people and to have their love in return.
That is why lying, and to a greater extent, omissions, are so debilitating. All my friends i found at Adult Dating site.
Why did I use the word ‘debilitating’? A lie stops you. It makes you change course. It changes you.
I have this theory that while a lie protects you from your actions, an omission is your way of protecting me.
For some reason, that bothers me more. The idea that someone will know what another person can handle borders on insanity.
One great young man once told me that he has a theory that an omission is based more on shame than on an actual lie or need to protect. Maybe he’s right.
There are things that people have told me that have felt like a Tyson blow to my body. I’ve reeled, then stood back up and been okay.
Lying serves very few purposes. Yes, there are grades of lies. No, your butt doesn’t look big but what if it does? Does that mean you are horrible? No, it means you need bigger pants.
Yes, I love you. When you don’t. And haven’t for a long time.
Do you see the difference?
For those people you are truly, honestly, madly in love with…don’t lie to them. Or yourselves.
Don’t say you are doing it for the kids. Or your house. Or your career. Be honest. Does it mean you can change things? No, not always, but honest communication can solve just about anything.
So don’t lie your friends and they’ll be near you…always..
Have I always gotten this right? No, not at all.
Will I always try to get it right in the future? Yes, absolutely.
The past two days, and the past two months have taught me many things.
1. Too many people with time to waste on their hands.
2. Several bloggers are experts with the TOU of this site.
3. I, personally, would rather be an expert on sex!
4. Can you imagine what it is like to be on an adult dating and sex site yet be an expert on their TOU so that you can harass people and not get deleted?
I’ve been drawn into drama with several members on this site. I post comments on my blog, and I do not send my friends or other members to these people’s blogs to attack or harass them. Yet, I’m constantly deleted when I post a blog about my views.
I do not call people ugly names like bitch, doucebags, or cunts in my blog, but I’ve been reported to the Read more »
I get many messages from everyone about my blog posts and I love that you guys and dolls enjoy my stories as much as I enjoy yours
I get a lot of first time experiences from people and I thought I might the opportunity to tell you about some of mine in return… the first time I ever gave a bj was when my cousin and I were baby sitting and went down to the corner store to tease the boys and get them all hot and bothered just for fun!
I was 12 at the time and even then a dirty girl Read more »
Here is my Real story..
It’s late, actually early morning, and I’m just getting out of work. As I pack up my stuff I’m thinking to myself that I’ll go grab a bit to eat at the nearby diner with the gang from work, then head home, crack open a beer and slip into the hot tub for a bit before calling it a night.
Millie, or Milagros, was an incredibly sexy 23 year old, hot-bodied, dark-skinned Caribbean goddess whom I’d been flirting with for months. Her boyfriend was in the Army and had just moved in with her and Carrie right before I Read more »
The last two weeks were interesting and fun. I met a man who made me laugh. I woke up with a smile on my face for the first time since my divorce.
I was married to my college sweetheart, and we have 3 beautiful little girls. We were swingers. We started this profile together 5 years ago. I have met some wonderful men and women from this site.
Three years ago, we allowed the lifestyle to change who we are. We couldn’t love each other. We couldn’t live with each other. We wanted to be good people for our children. We decided to get a divorce. I needed help, and I asked my soon to be ex to take care of Read more »
I had a great time with my girlfriends last night. There were several men checking us out, and one man caught my attention. He was interested in my best friend. I was cool with it until I saw that she wasn’t interested in him. I made a play for him. The people in our group were mad at me because he was considered “forbidden fruit”. He was my best friend’s love interest they said. She turned him down!
Ever have such awful sex that you just want the person to finish so you can stop.
I’ve had that more times than I can count!
BUt there are few specific occasions that sit out particularly well in my mind…
I went home with two guys after the club one night and they each had there turn with me. The older guy was not bad but the other guy was AWFUL he was all about the bunny ‘frigg’ as I call it.
That very shallow penetration, just the tip of the dick inside and vigorously jolting your hips back and forth- that’s the bunny fuck. I guess it feels good for guys bc the sensitivity level in the head of the penis is so great, but for woman this maneuver is anything BUT great.
Too shallow, too fast, too much Read more »